Kubva pfungwa yemunhu anosangana nekuputsika :
L'intention. vanoda zvinhu kuchinja maitiro angu, kutambudzika ngazvirerukire .
Hukama, kunaka kwehukama, kutarisana, apo munhu anova munhu. Hunhu munhu anogara achifambidzana ; hapagoni kuvapo “ndizvo” pasina mumwe “tu”.
“handidaro chokwadi iva munhu chete ndikakutarisa mumaziso uye Ndinokutendera kuti utarise mune yangu.”
Establish the link, chisungo icho munhu anonzwa achigamuchirwa uye achigamuchirwa mune yake kuva, kubatana kwakanzwika mukati mukati, kure kupfuura isu anogona kutaura uye kutaura, chisungo chinoita kuti unzwe wakasununguka kumba self, uye kuti kuchinjana kunokosha kuchaitika .
the kutaura.Kuti vagamuchirwe nemutauro wavo. Mutauro wangu ndini. Ndiro rinondiita kuti ndiwe munyika, anondichengeta uye anonditsanangura. Zviri a chikamu chakakosha chekuzivikanwa kwangu. mutauro wangu, aya ndiwo mazwi angu asiwo aya izvo muviri wangu wenyama unoratidza kuburikidza nekufamba uye maikorofoni – zviratidzo .
Kuporesa ndiko kuvateerera, ndiko kusangana nenyanzvi iri mumamiriro azvino uye kwete kukakavarakungwarira, ane maitiro ekuita mutsa anogona kundifambisa uye ita kuti ude kuvimba neni. Ndinomirira mumwe kuti adzikame ari pakati iye pachake uye kuti kugashira kwake kusina magumo kwezvizere uye yakazara .
inofanira kunzwika uyekugamuchirwa pasina kutongwa.
Ichi chikunzwa nomuviri wangu, psyche yangu, mweya wangu uye wangu zvinokanganisa zviri kuitika mandiri pamusoro pezviri kuitika ikoko, zvakasiyana nehurongwa hwemusangano uye zvakadaro padyo neni bykuvimba iyo inosimbiswa .
Ichi chinhambamuchidimbu uye zvakanyanya zvakajeka zvinogoneka zvandinonzwa .
For the murapi :
Ndiko kuziva kubudikidza kuteerera zvakafara sezvinobvira kuzvinhu zvose zvemuitiro we kusangana, mukuenderera mberi kwekuziva, muLe kusangana mukuita kwe unfold pakati pedu, mukubatana kwakatangwa pano uye ikozvino asi izvo zvakadaro zvinovhenekera zvakapfuura nezveramangwana .
Iko kugadzira a mamiriro ekunze ekureruka uye rusununguko kune imwe, iyo inobvumirawo chiziviso kuongorora zvinhu .
Ichi chigadzira furemu sekongiri se zvokufananidzira uye zvokufungidzira, zvakajeka uye zvakachengeteka, asi iyo isingafaniri kuva rusvingo adjoining kubvumira kuwana kune chaiyo marongero .
Ndiko kutanga tracks, hypotheses, mitsetse, izvo mumwe anogona kubata kana vari chiyero chayo, pasina kupererwa nezvazviri, kana kure kure naye manzwiro ekugona uye kunzwisisa kwechinguva. Ichi chigadzirisa nekugadzira uye zvine chekuita ne mamiriro ezvinhu .
Iri kuda zvinhu zvose kuva neizvi kuva pamberi pako mune zvazvinopa .
Ichi chikuda kuva munhu iyeye, pfuma yake yakaunganidzirwa mukati nhoroondo yehupenyu hwake, kugona kwayo uye kuti chii mukutumirwa kwe pachake, mukubhedhenura kwayo pakukura kwayo, mukuvhurwa kwayo ku nyika .
Ichi chi kuchengetedzachinhambwe chakakodzera pakati pake neni kuitira kugadzirisa uye gadzirisa kukanganisa muhukama pakati pake newake zvakatipoteredza, nekunyatsojeka mukunzwa uye kuverenga mukutaura pasina kumanikidza mumwe kuti ave mumwe kunze kwezvaari ndiko/uye kunoratidza boka rayo .
Zviri kuchenesa zvese zvinhu zveconfluence, yefungidziro, d’Nhanganyaya, yeretroflexion uye D’egotism mune zviri kuridzwa pamusoro pemusangano wedu. Zvinofanira kuva mechanic ane ungwaru anobvisa zvine hungwaru nekuunganidzazve zvidimbu zvidiki zvemichina yevanhu inoramba ichirarama zvakanyanya panguva ye existential transaction inobatanidza isu, inotisanganisa, anoramba isu uye isu inokura .
Ndiko kufunga mumwe wacho semunhu ari kukura, somufambi ari munzira kutanga, akatanga nzira isina kukanganiswa yekuziva. kuva murume, kuva mufambi, Nguva dzose ichifamba .
Ichi chikubva pakutanga, kubva kune mumwe, pamwe nhoroondo yehupenyu hwake, nemanzwiro ake anodyisa kubuda kwechii tisingazvizivi inoputika muchidimbu chekusangana kwedu. Hunhu hwekuve “hapana” uye kwete munhu anoreva kutsvaka chokwadi chake chiziviso nechinangwa chekugara chinoshanda kudividuation kune izvo munhu ari chaizvo .
Ndiko kubata kosi uye kuvamuchengeti wefuremu, kunyora zviri kuitika, kuva, mu nguva-yenguva yekusangana kwazvino uye mukutevedzana kwekusangana kwedu .
Ichi chiexperimentzvine basa, mamiriro ezvinhu zvinoitika kune rhythm yeuyo anouya nechivimbo kuti arapwe uye achitungamirirwa neuyo uyo ane basa rokumuchengeta. Saka vanozogona kubuda izvi zvinhu zve psychological mechanics pabasa mu psyche yedu, kwete mukati kurova mumwe ne peremptory diagnostics uye restorative balms asi nokumutungamirira kunzira uko iye pachake angakwanisa kupa chirevo kune zviri kuitika .
Usashandise zvakeruzivo rwedzidziso nokungwarira chete. Dzidziso uye hunyanzvi hahugone kumbundira iyo yese psyche, the kurapwa kwepfungwa kuve a ” hukama hwakazara ” uyo anobata murapi semurwere zvakanyanya kupfuura dzidziso uye maitiro .
Ichi chikuva nemoyo murefu pasina mira uone .
Ichi chikuva anokurudzira pasina kutangira mumwe mararamiro ake .
Ichi chikuita zvakanaka muzviito zvake mupfungwa ye“kururamisira” kuti arege kunyengera mumwe achimupa chishuvo chokuwedzera mukuzviziva .
Ichi chi kuva mu kugadzira zvakakodzera nezviripo, just the, muno uye zvino uye shurecontact .
Ndiko kugara mauri nyore, mukuzvininipisa uye kumutsa musangano wepfungwa umo basa zvakare inodarika kugona kwedu kwekuziva kujekesa mamiriro ezvinhu, kugona kupfuura zvinotaurwa pano, uye uko shanduko inoitika pane zvakawanda unyanzvi hunokosha, simba chete uyekugona kuzvirapa so stimulated kuti the hapana aiva nemweya wakaipa .
Ndiko kusarudza kusava nechokwadi uye kukosha kwekuita kwemunhu arikusangana nezvinoitika the, kune runyararo runosimbisa ruzere nepriori, zvekufungidzira uye zvenhema chokwadi cheavo vanoziva nzira yekurapa, yeuyo anodzikamisa – kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nguva zvichidikanwa – , kutadza kunyoresa munhu nhanho yemutoro nehana kuzvivakira mufaro wake .
Nenhetembo wako kuziva kuti mumhute yemangwanani kungofanana norubvunzavaeni manheru, pane zvese zvakatikomberedza zvisiri isu, vanorarama kana vane inorarama nevanhu vakawanda uye kuti nyika izere nemikana musangano nenhaurirano .
vhura mukuzviremekedza kune zvimwe inogona kuva hukama chete anoporesa .
Zvinofanira kuvamufariri weramangwana rake, muhameno uye mukuona kwayo maitiro, munzira yekugara zvakanaka pamutsara wehupenyu hwako. Ichi chi kuvafree, izvo zvisiri nyore nekuti sekutaura kunoita Kirkegaard : ” Chinhu chinotyisa chakapihwa varume isarudzo, rusununguko . “
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