Ingqibelelo kukuba ube nguwe. Asikokukholelwa ukuba kufuneka ube ngomnye umntu .
Ayinakusetyenziswa ingqondo nomzimba wakhe kwishishini eliphambeneyo lokuphila amava omnye, ukubhala imibongo okanye ukuphila ngokwasemoyeni enye. Amaxesha amaninzi amadoda ayakhawuleza ukuzinika ukubaluleka bexelisa impumelelo, ngokuba bonqena ukucinga ngcono. Bafuna impumelelo ekhawulezileyo kwaye bangxamele ukuba bangathathi ixesha lokuba ngokwabo .
Ingqibelelo uhlala kunye nokuthobeka. Kwindoda ethobeke ngokwenene, isimilo ukuba, amasiko nemikhwa yabantu ayingomcimbi ungquzulwano. Ukuthobeka akuthethi ukuzama ukwahluka, ngokungathi thina wayesazi ngcono kunaye nabani na into esiyiyo kunye nento esimele ukuba yiyo .
Njani singaba ngokwethu ukuba siphila ubomi bomnye ? Kwaye kuthatha isibindi sokuba nguwe nje, ngokuhambelana nekamva lethu. Kwakhona ixhala esinokuba nalo ekugcineni ulungelelwano lwethu, ukunyaniseka, kwiimeko ezinzima, ukuqhubeka ukuba nguwe ngaphandle kobungqwabalala, ngaphandle sinyanzelise ubuntu bethu bobuxoki kubuntu bobuxoki babanye, UCanzibe sifundise ukuba sithobeke ngokunzulu .
Enye ye Iimpawu zomntu othobekileyo kukuba abanye abazi ukuba bacinge ntoni ukusuka kuye . Bayazibuza ukuba uyaphambana okanye unebhongo .
Ukuthobeka kunesithukuthezi njengodade, leyo yezithuba ezingenasiphelo apho yonke into eyenzekayo, kwanokuhlehliswa kwezinto ezithethiweyo nekuthi ngayo yonke into ibe negalelo, ekufikeni nasekuhambeni kweemeko zengqondo, ngomoya wethuku , iinkanuko ezidilikayo nezimanga zomfanekiso wakhe .
Ingqibelelo ku usisi Athena, ibhongo lokuba yindoda/ibhinqa elimile, ukubamba ibha, ukuba nkqo, ukulungele ukujamelana nobunzima, kwi-commiseration-reflex, ukuya ukuthandabuza kunye nokuzikhukhumalisa .
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