Join perfectly to his own suffering without resisting him, it is to make possible that it is not unbearable to us. Deep in tearing freely accepted we can find the peace and serenity that surpasses all understanding .
The refusal of what is always represents the attempt of a lie, that of believing oneself more stronger than the truth .
One of the the greatest suffering is to be confronted with the dying close to us. One knows that the other is going to die. We know that this transition is normal and natural .
have like attitude the serene acceptance of the death of the other, not to find scandalous his departure, to help him pass this passage, makes us easy, caring and human in the relationship .
The moment of extreme suffering lived in consciousness is also the possibility offered to overcome our egocentrism, to what blinds us, at this assembly of false protections which is in fact only a pile of projections, permanent introjections and avoidances .
The work in consciousness of decryption, understanding and lucid experimentation of these disturbances, which more or less alleviate the suffering, can lead to the erasure of identification with the ego, and therefore represent the healing of a more or less hallucinated state .
This beyond suffering, while not denying the relative truths which are sources of fear, invites us to consider the absolute truth, that of not being this ego limited but to be “infinite” .
It is possible that we are afraid of what we are attracted to and fascinated by in some way of another, and what we resist. We are captured by this infinity which is in us, by this infinity that we are, this greatness, this immensity, this non-dependence, this freedom .
The suffering faced in the face and elevated to the status of obligation of conscience is what we are called to join, by approaching infinity in the relationship, the eminently human work of the encounter with one's own infinite.
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